On neighbors..

I find it funny to write about neighbors as a second topic of my blog but I can’t help but write about them now.  You see, our house was just recently rebuilt (less than two months as I write this).  I’ve just planted my candle flowers and forget-me-nots at the pedestrian of the house right in front of the gate.  Generally, I like plants, flowers, trees, organic stuff and other nature-related living things.  Watering the plants is a part of my habit - in the morning before I go to work and in the afternoon/evening when I come back.  I get really excited when I see even the slightest improvement on the planted effects.

Just this morning, when I was doing my usual routine, I saw a dead cat with insects feasting over the smelly object.  I’m not a great lover of pets, but I generally like cute and furry pups and cats but abhor loud & earsplitting woofs of dogs and disturbing crows of roosters during unholy hours and most especially dead animals on my yard.  I am not even sure why they allow roosters to live on a supposedly quiet subdivision.  Anyway, I saw this dead cat in the middle of the street right before I left the previous night to meet my good friends.  I tried to avoid it when I drove my way towards the end of the street. When I came back later in the evening, I was glad that it’s no longer there so I wouldn’t have to worry about it, much less have nightmares because of it (reminds me of the book/movie pet sematary by Stephen King).

In the morning, much to my dismay, when the sun was up and the usual crow of roosters were audible, the dead cat was still there and right on my newly planted babies.  And who could’ve brought it there but my long-time and usually irritating neighbors who have always been there right by the time we actually moved to the street.  They are two senior citizens who do nothing but act as a protector of the neighborhood, monitor the usual passers in the street and watch TV on their porch near enough to see everything happening outside their territory.  They are people who don’t mind throwing their garbage at their neighbor(s) garden just so they can shield their own place from dirt and scrap.  We’re quite unfortunate to reside right beside them.  In the many years of being neighbors,  I can’t say a single nice thing that they did, but I can enumerate some of the countless actions that they’ve done that made it impossible for us to like them.  I can even nominate them to Guinness book of records as the “worst neighbor” in town if there’s such a thing. I don’t find it surprising that they don’t have much friends, except for our kind neighbor situated right across our house and owns a “sari-sari” store who can be described as an epitome of a decent neighbor.

When I saw the smelly cat, my morning routine was disrupted and I immediately contacted my parents and my sister with her husband who were supportive enough to dispose the lifeless thing.  I cannot do it myself, biology is not really one of my favorite subjects in high school.  But, I spoke to my “decent” neighbor and verified who could’ve thrown such junk into our ground and she could only suspect the next door seniors who have nothing better to do than infuriate us.  I seriously believe that they find satisfaction in making our lives miserable.     Anyhow, my good neighbor was helpful enough to volunteer their gardener to pick and throw it somewhere for us.  Since my brother in law already did the job, I nevertheless thanked her for the offer.

In hindsight, the world is truly a place where "wicked" people exist but I firmly believe that there’s always a sense of balance and yes, that includes our neighbors.  We are blessed enough to have good people who can be our sunshine in the middle of crisis.  One can be disappointed in an instant, but there’s always an equalizer to make all things pleasant again.